its mah life!!!

I Decided...Part 1

2009-05-25T22:20:00.003-04:00

Lol...there is not part 2, but I jus wanted 2 say that cuz of the obvious lol. But anyhoo...I decided. And I decided that I want him in mah life. I jus can't be without him. And I kno it sounds crazy for someone so young and all that he has put me thru. But, I guess that wen you kno...you kno. And if anyone has ANYTHING to say about it. Well...they can talk 2 themselves, cuz I ain't hearing it. Yes and I think needless 2 say, if he screws up again it WILL be it. And I mean that with tha utmost. And I think he understands that better than anyone. It didn't take long at all 4 him 2 change it around. I definitely notice it. And it's crazy cuz he's still where he is and I'm still here, but jus talkin 2 him, I can tell. But, all I can do is w8 and see. I think he gets it this time. Cuz there was a point wen I was definitely like, "No, I'm done." I guess thas wat scared him ish-less. And thas wen he went on that whole drinkin binge. And even after that, I was kinda like I don't really want this anymore. But, it came 2 me so clear one day. I think listening to a Keri Hilson song, "Where Did He Go?" In the song she talks about how she made a mistake in letting him go and she had to deal with that decision years later and now she's missing him. I didn't want that to be me. I can't let that be me. Cuz regardless of the bull. I kno wat I felt and I kno wat was real. I kno that our love was without a doubt, real! So, yea...I decided. And even tho we're not technically together, he's still mah heart. The very piece that completes me. I love him...more than that simple 3 worded phrase cud ever express. He is mah all.

Umm...besides that. Still very much saved and in love with God...FIRST AND FOREMOST. I think that the breakup allowed me to become much closer to Him. I don't wanna leave him out of my life anymore. Thas wen things start to go wrong. But, yea...I definitely don't have the urge 2 jus WANNA go party and drink or wateva else. I'm so very over that. For those who party, more power to you. Not knocking it for you, it jus ain't for me!

I'm in love with mah life right now. Not very many ppl can say that. Most are fronting like they are really happy, but they're hiding it with something else. I can genuinely say that I am content with mah life. With the homebody that I am and not needing anything else than wat I have! In a few more months, mah love will be able 2 move up here with me for good, I'm trusting and believing in God to make this happen in the music industry for me, and me and mah ma are closer than ever. It's a great time 4 me. And I kno that it will only continue to go up! yep!!

To BE...Mrs. Amillie.

Always and forever. Ain't no one takin that from me!

2009-05-06T18:59:00.004-04:00

::sighs::

It's bout time for me 2 blog again..had 2 get these emotions out!

Soooo...update on the bf...or I mean ex. It's still so hard saying that. It feels wrong being single. Not bcuz I don't like bein single or anything like that. I was a single girl 4 a WHILE and I loved it. But, bcuz I didn't wanna be single. I wanted us 4eva. 4eva...but I'm single and even tho its hard 2 say it...he is ex. So with that sed...I've talked 2 him three times since we've broken up. The first time was the day after. But, it hasn't even been like that. His frenz had 2 call me so that I cud calm him down bcuz he was so drunk one day and actin crazy. And mind you, he duz'n drink. But, he was so drunk that he was talkin 2 me and kept sayin it wasn't me. When he finally realized it was me I had 2 ask him wat his deal was cuz thas not him. He told me he been drinkin ever since the day we broke up. For a WEEK and a half! Okay...real mature way 2 go about this. Suppose 2 be gettin ur ish 2gether and this is how you do it?? He sed I was right and he was gonna do better. Hopefully...and then I was txt'n him yesterday. I jus miss him like crazy right now and I'm so proud that I didn't give in yet.

But on that note. And I kno that mah fren means well but the thing that keeps irritating me is wen I tell her that I miss him and love him she'll say, "Well don't rush it, give yourself time...don't let love blind you."

????????

UGH! I knoooo she means well, I do. But, we've already had this discussion. And if love was blinding me then I would STILL be with him. And about giving it time? Well wat exactly is it that you think I'm doin right now. I can't love him and miss him?? Duh...if I loved him and missed him while we were 2gether, how much more do you think I miss him now??? It's rly starting 2 irritate me bcuz ppl's opinions of wat I should do is more than I can handle. It's like I already gotta think about mah decision and then on top of that I have 2 worry about YOU and wat you think I shud do. And I guess wat makes me so mad about her sayin that everytime is that I KNO wat she thinks I shud do. Everyone is so set on me jus sayin I'm not gonna be with him. WHY??? It is not ur relationship and it is NOT you who was hurt. If I, myself am thinking about what I should or shouldn't do then you should be thinking the same. Actually you shouldn't be thinkin about it at all cuz it is not you or your relationship or your life. I never try 2 make decisions for mah frenz. NEVER..why do they always seem 2 want 2 regulate mine?

I shud'n say they...I guess I'm jus venting right now.

::sighs::

Sorry...well on a better note. I am now officially a part of GOODLIFE CO. Still tryna figure out if I wanna do the whole singer/ songwriter thing or jus the songwriter thing. I dunno. I went in it thinkin that I JUS wanna write. But I keep leaning to doing both. We'll see wat God has 4 me. I'm jus so excited. Can't wait until I record this song I wrote the other day. It's a banger. Swear it...lol!

Well...thas it I guess!

{to be or not to be....Mrs. Amillie???}

Lighten up...pleez!

2009-04-21T12:08:00.002-04:00

Some ppl dnt kno how 2 take things 4 wat they are. If you happen 2 write sumthing about YOUR life and how ur tryna make YOURSELF better, they take it personally. I honestly don't get that at all...wateva. I have enuff goin on in my life than 2 sit up and make sure that wat I say duz'n offend this person or that person. It's tiring.

Wateva...

I'm currently single. Not sure if we'll get back 2gether cuz tha decision is ultimately mine 2 make. I love him...so very much. He is tha only guy I've eva loved in this way...but he's gotta get it 2getha. Maybe I do too...and thas wat tha purpose of this break-up is. To give myself time 2 think and hopefully it'll give him time 2 mature. He says that he's gonna prove it 2 me...get his ish 2getha. One can only hope, right?

Anyway...I'm still saved...I think that if I hadn't rededicated my life back 2 God that Sunday, then this jus wud'a been so much harder 2 deal with. I think I wud have literally been depressed. I'm goin out wit tha wifey on her b-day. This will be interesting seeing as I'm not gonna drink and we really don't even party like that anymore...so...we'll see. I kno I'll have fun...I jus don't kno how it is 2 be around my frenz wen they're drunk and I'm not lol.

I think all in all...I see a lot of growth in myself. I learned not 2 tell everybody everything. I learned not 2 sit up and baby everyone...cuz I'm not AlWAYS in tha wrong...I'm learning that I'm the most important person in mah life. I do a lot for everyone and sumtimes 4get about myself. I think this break-up cud'n have come at a better time. And don't get me wrong. I'm sadder than that thang right now. I'll prolly cry everyday 4 tha next month {thas tha deadline I'm giving myself} and I'll miss him like crazy....but it's wat I gotta do. It jus it...gotta look out 4 Cristal. Love is...on tha back burner right now. Not tha most important thing so...thas it.

Take it 4 wat it is....or don't. Either way...I'ma be me!

Cristal

{to be...or not 2 be--Mrs. Amillie???}

A New Me!

2009-04-13T20:08:00.002-04:00

I suddenly realized that mah life was headed in a wrong direction. And it's a sad realization, but I came 2 it none the less. Partying, drinkin and wateva else. And I've wanted 2 change...jus didn't wanna give it up. Wateva "it" is....But on Sunday @ church...it jus hit me. The message was 2 me! I've changed. And it's not 4 tha better. Not one bit. Partying is fun. Drinkin is fun. But it's tha same thing. Fun for a moment and then I'm wondering tha nxt day why I did it. I had 2 realize there was something more than jus having fun FOR THA MOMENT!! Wat about where I go after i leave here?? Wat kind of impression or legacy am I leaving? A girl who parties and drinks simply 2 feel good 4 tha moment. Wats that about?? Not much at all. I gotta be a role model. Gotta do something different. Cuz trust and believe there are a billion and one more girls AND guys out there doin tha exact same thing. And wat exactly duz that say about me??? That i'm follower. I sit and think all tha time about how me and mah frenz wud go out and have way more fun wen we didn't even have one drop of liquor. And now it seems like thas needed in order 2 have a good time. It's so pointless cuz there's always words spoken that you didn't mean or something dumb that happens and you gotta apologize for it l8r on. It's jus not cool.

I'm jus sick of tha repetition. There's gotta be something more 2 life. Never mind tha fact that I'm getting older. And I kno some will say, "We're young...we're having fun." But, there have been ppl in mah life that are tha same age as me and gone from here. It's not like they lived a hard life in tha streets...jus regular kids like me! And they're gone. That cud have jus as easily been me. And I kno 4 a fact that I wud not have gone 2 Heaven. No matter how much church I went 2 or dancing 4 tha praise dance team, singing in tha choir...I kno I wud'n have went. Bcuz...I wasn't living tha life of a Christian. Or shud I say "living Christ-like" cuz everybody's a Christian now-a-days.

There comes a point where there's GOTTA BE a separation. And it may get lonely. As of right now I can't say bcuz I haven't gotten that far, but I kno it'll get hard. Frenz may not call me as much bcuz they think I'll be different or no fun. But, thas sometimes wat it comes down 2. Hopefully mah frenz aren't that way and will be supportive and not get mad cuz I don't wanna drink. Hopefully they'll say I'm taking tha grown-up approach 2 life. And maybe they'll follow suit...maybe. All I can speak 4 is me and that Cristal from Saturday is not tha Cristal I wish 2 be anymore. I'm a new me! And I'm loving every minute of it.

F THIS!!!

2009-03-21T19:35:00.001-04:00

I'm dun!

Girl Wud YOU?!?!?

2009-03-11T21:12:00.003-04:00

So me and Free have been dealin with his bitter ex since we became an issue. I won't even go thru all tha details bcuz it iz theee longest story. But, she won't get over it and she always comes at me so randomly makin up stories about how she's still wit him and all this otha jazz that I'm suppose 2 believe. Tha girl is jus plain full of it. It's like come on now. Ur there, I'm here...if he was really with you then why wud he be workin so hard at bein with someone who is not even in his area code??? come on now...let's jus be real. At any other point in mah relationship I'da believed every lie she told me and broke up with Free in 2 seconds, but we've been here so many times b4 it's jus so very obvious that she's jus a bitter bi**h {for lack of a better word lol}. I jus want her to get over it. So here's tha new scenario:

I'm layin in bed...jus woke up from takin a nap on like tha only day off I've had in like 3 weeks {excludin Sundays of course...lol} and mah fone rings and I look and it reads number unavailable. So, of course I'm all wondering who it iz and I answer and they hang right up. So wateva...but of course I'm wondering who it is, right ;-). But, then I get a text from mah baby tellin me not 2 answer any private calls cuz its her...he jus saw her and they got n2 it. So, of course 1st question comin 2 mah mind is how this psycho chic got mah number. Well, apparently someone asked to use his phone and wen he wasn't payin attention they ran off and gave it 2 her. So mah next question, which I'm sure ur asking urself at this very moment is , "Who wud do sum'n like that?" Or sumwhere along those lines of course, lol. So, he tells me it was one of her frenz who he felt like she was up 2 sum'n but didn't pay much attention 2 it...he didn't even kno his ex was there until ole girl ran off with his fone.

::picture mah face right nah::

I mean, I wasn't mad at him, its jus like...come on now bae. U obviously felt she was bein sneaky but u still gave her tha fone. Watta dummy move, right? I mean, it cud have all been avoided...but it is wat it is. U did sum'n stupid...I like had no words...but he apologized of course. Lol....but needless 2 say chic has been callin non-stop. She called me SEVENTEEN times--BACK 2 BACK {and still call'n...mah fone jus rang again...lol}. But, it's like...GIRL??? Please get ova it. He duz'n want you anymore. I mean...I can understand why.

One: You're psycho

Two: I look waaaaaay better than you and mah body??? come on now...no comparison

Three: We're IN LOVE!!!! Geeesh...get ova it. plz!

I jus think it's all so very high school. And tha sad part about it is that even wen I was in high school i wud'a neva dun no immature crap like this. She's like frikkin 12...come on now. All I can say is...

Girl....WUD YOU?!?!?

No More Confusion...

2009-03-03T10:44:00.002-05:00

So this is where I'm @...umm. I guess having this whole long distance relationship thing, I get a lil lonely. Obviously. I mean I can go out with mah girls but there is nothing like having tha company of someone from tha opposite sex. And I love Free! And tha only person I eva wanna be with is him, but since our situations don't allow us that wen we wud like, I'm left...alone. Now...I still have a lot of bad girl tendencies. As much as I wud like 2 say I've passed that one...yea...not so much. I end up putting mahself in situations around other guys that I know I shud'n be around. Like a 1st love ex...or a guy that states everytime he sees me that he wants to be with me. I kno...silly girl, I am. I'm sorry...I get bored. =( Not excusable, I kno...but it's tha truth. I mean....I didn't go all tha way with 1st love ex...but...well...he did. ;-) BAD GIRL! ::sighs:: Needless 2 say...I WILL NOT be goin around him anymore. Cuz, he's a lot stronger than me...and Lord knows I don't need any more of that. Wellllll...ok. No, I don't. LOL

Then there's...P. Weed {this name is f'n hilarious 2 me, but it fits him so much}. But, he like really wants 2 wife me. Like, I met this dude at a club like over two years ago. And at first he seemed like he wud be different, you kno? So, I thot that wud go somewhere. very obviously, it didn't. Cuz he's a dumb boy...and boys will be--well...boys! But he started acting different. {guess he got a girl...which wasn't a big thing 2 me cuz then I started back with Arkansas {ugh...can't stand this boy...beside tha point tho lol}. But, now I'm like all in love and he'll see mah status updates that I write about mah baby and then all of a sudden you wanna come back around??? Well, at first I wasn't giving him tha time of day. But, then mah sill a** decided I wanted 2 have a best guy fren???? I kno, right? But, I don't kno how I thot this wud work since he's never expressed a desire 4 frenship with me...once! It's always, "F ur man! U need 2 get wit me.." or somwhere along those lines! But, one VERY DRUNK NIGHT..I kissed him @ tha club. I felt terrible, but duh!!! I blamed it on tha alcohol...and nooooo I did not tell Free. U think I'm crazy? lol...but this Friday...I went 2 see him and we jus talked 4 a while and then...well..we kissed again. I never go 2 far...well I guess wat I did with 1st love ex was a lil far {well..wat he did 2 me}! But, honestly...I feel terrible.

I will NEVER tell Free about this...I jus can't. I needed 2 get that out tho. I don't think I even told Wifey...cuz she will kill me. LOL! I guess she'll know now, huh?

Well...very needless 2 say...I'm content now. I chose 2 be in a long distance relationship and thas how it's gonna be until he moves up here for good. Goodness I can't w8...this is harder than I thot...lol ;-) But, I love Free and no one will change that...So. I am no longer confused. I'm good...no more bad girl ways.

PROMISE!!

~Mrs. Amillie~

PG's be theeeeee...

2009-02-06T20:23:00.000-05:00

....baddest chics!!!

Lmbo! So serious tho...i missed mah girls n we're out 2nite! We do's damage...n i can't w8!!!

Pix posted soon of the sexiness of tha nite lol.

Dnt chu wish u cud come 2??? Lol...

~*~ Mrs. Amillie ~*~

affirmation, confirmation

2009-02-02T21:13:00.000-05:00

So yesterday @ church was tha 2nd time it's been prophesied that God wants 2 use mah voice {and abt tha umpteenth time God confirmed it 2 me thru MANY different wayz}. I dnt kno if that means i'm supposed 2 do gospel or wat...i'm takin it as wateva is meant 2 be will be. After service tha minster came 2 me & asked me was I in school & i sed "no, jus working." And he looked @ me & sed:

"But u not doin wat u wanna do, r u?"

Wow...he hit tha nail right on tha head. I wanna make it in tha industry...i jus dnt kno how...dnt kno where 2 start. All i cud say was i'm workin on it. Sad...but i will make it...got no choice.

Aside 4rm that...me and mah ♥ are still goin strong. I find mahself havin 2 be his roc cuz he's goin thru a hard time...but i'll ride it out wit him cuz I love him...plain & simple. He's tha best love i've eva had aside 4rm God, of course. I miss him tons!!!

Got sum more 2 talk abt but i'm @ work so maybe i shud try doin sum work lol...peace & love!! Lol...

~*~ mrs. Amillie ~*~

I DID IT!!!!!

2009-01-22T16:06:00.000-05:00

2moro's tha day...

2009-01-20T21:30:00.000-05:00

Sooooo...I guess it's time I officially start tha long road 2 mah song writing career. I'm gonna go 2 an open mic night. I'm goin by mahself bcuz I dnt think any of mah frenz wud cum, so that jus adds 2 the worry in mah heart. I swear mah heart is in mah stomach & I'm not evn there. I jus gotta get ova mah nervousness of singing in front of ppl I dnt kno. Mah only thing is I'm by mahself. I dnt have tha safety net of sum1 else b'n there wit me. It's jus me in tha most vulnerable spot. And tha wat if's of "wat if I'm not good enuff?" "Wat if they dnt like mah music???" Wat if? I dnt kno. I kno it's meant 4 me...but it wnt happen until I get out there & go get it. Soooo...I'm goin...finally. Better l8 than neva, right?? Yea...

~*~mrs. Amillie~*~

Jus Gotta Make It...

2009-01-13T21:04:00.000-05:00

So I dnt think I've eva wanted anything more than 2 make it as a writer. After all mah yrz tryna escape it & do sum'n different, I finally embraced it & took it as "this is wat God has 4 me 2 do..." I mean I'm good @ it...He's definitely blessed me wen it cumz 2 that facet of mah life...but it jus seems so hard!

I honestly haven't tha faintest as where 2 start. I feel so helpless wen it cumz 2 that. U kno most ppl got ppl in tha industry. Or ppl who kno ppl who kno ppl....who kno ppl. I ain't even 1 of those. Sad I kno...but I was browsing tha web, giving mah search engine a little excercise and this 1 guy {rly can't remember his name, but I guess he's a good source} he sed pretti much u jus gotta get out there & do it. And as much stagefright as I have wen it cumz 2 letting ppl n2 mah most vulnerable place--mah writing--I gotta do it, I gotta get over it so mah songz can be heard.

Tha reason y I haven't dun anything yet is bcuz i'm so f'n afraid of failure & I kno I shud'n be cuz failure shud'n evn be an option but also it was prophesied ova me that God wanted 2 use mah voice! And 4 most that wud hav given them tha runnin start 2 do wat they wanted cuz it jus frightened me more. I'll get ova it...I gotta l8 start...but betta l8 than neva...I'm only 22 as of tha present lol!

I guess tha only thing standing between me & mah blessing was...well...me! Isn't that most often tha case?

**sighs**

Well...I guess 2moro starts officially tha day ya girl gets about herz! Finally is all I can say...I'm sooooo relieved!!

~*~Mrs. Amillie~*~

Best Mix of 2009...

2009-01-13T11:56:00.000-05:00

So this is tha cd i keep on play in mah car @ tha moment. And it's so good I honestly dnt think anotha mic cd I make will top it.

So here it iz:

1. Birthday Sex - Jeremih
Ok...so dude is a chicago artist & u kno since thas where mah boo is 4rm then he keeps me posted on all the hot chi songz. And this 1 iz definitely a winner. Oh & tha vid id f'n hilarious!!! :-)

2. Circus - Britney Spears
So plz dnt h8 on Britney. I'm so glad she got herlife 2gether & bac on tha chartz. And she did it right cuz "womanizer" iz hot 2. I jus like this one better

3. Can't Believe It Remix - T-Pain ft. Justin Timberlake
Now I'm not rly a big fan of JT...but I absolutely LOVE T-pain {so innovative...lol} so anything Pain duz its jus hot 2 me. Fiyah {as mah boo wud say. Pronounced fie...lol}

4. Kiss Me Thru Tha Phone - Souljah Boy ft. Sammie
Now we all kno Souljah Boy can't rap, but his songs r always hottttt!! And Sammie?? Well, he's even hotter...esp on this song! 6, 7, 8 drippin down on ur 2-way tooooo...

5. Heartless - Kanye West
Nuff sed, right??? Lol

6. When It Hurts - Avant
Well this was kinda me & mah boo theme song 4 a min, so of course it holds a special place wit me.

7. Just Like Me - Jamie Foxx ft. T.I.
I jus love Jamie...he's good

8. If You Leave - Musiq ft. Mary J.
Such a gr8 song!!! Rly & truly..

9. Beep - Bobby V. Ft. Yung Joc
Beep, beep, beep, beep, beep, beep!!! Hilarious, but it's an all around good song. Fun 2 dance 2...esp in tha car actin like u beepin tha horn. Dnt act like u dnt!!!! ;-)

10. She Got Her Own - Ne-Yo ft. Jamie Foxx & Fabolous
...i mean rly??? Do I hav 2 explain? Lol...

11. Pop Champagne - Jim Jones ft. Ron Brows & Juelz
Ohhhhhh!!! Lol...I swear that Ron brows dude sound like 'Ye on tha auto tune! Lol...swear it!!!

12. Told Ya So - Jesse McCartney
I ♥ this lil white boi. He sooo wants 2 be black. And he gettin down on tha music tip wit tha right ppl. Neptunes on "Leavin'" and tha Clutch on "It's Over"...which both of those songs i abso-tooda-lutely love!

13. Green Light - John Legend ft. Andre 3000
Every time this song come on I start dancin lol!! Hee hee...Andre's rap is soooo funny!

14. Let it Rock - Kevin Rudolf ft. Lil Wayne
Omg...u can h8 all u want...this song is fiyah!!! Lol...even b4 I heard tha Lil Wayne rap i was rockin out 2 it lol..then wen I heard Wayne I was like this is tha best f'n song ever!!!! Yeaaaaaahhh! In a way 2 hype white guy voice of course lol!!!

{Reverse let it rock & green light lol}

15. Roc - Beyonce
So...this song is how I feel about tha love of mah life! I mean, honestly! I made a vid 2 it & everything {1st vid I eva made}...I think I'll post it next time. But, B loves her man...it's sooooo cute!!!

16. Official Girl - Cassie
It's a good song...as long as Cassie stop dancin then I can be ok wit her as a singer!

17. Diva - Beyonce
Even tho I hav this cd...I hav 2 put this on mah mix...Beyonce is str8 up foolin! Have ya'll heard ego by the way??? That chic a fool. Love her!

18. Turn Off - Keri Hilson ft. Lil Wayne
I wonder how many times I've written Waynes name on this list. Ah well...he is hot...& so is this song!! Get wit it!!!

There's 2 more songs I 4got 2 write on this list, but mah memory is escapin me! So...thas mah mix...and i duz luv it! Lol...wat d'ya think???

~Mrs. Amillie~

2009...

2009-01-08T19:13:00.000-05:00

I promised Bee i wud start blogging again so here i'm iz!!! {P.S. Bee no 1 can comment on ur blogs which iz prolly y u dnt have any comments lol}

I swear this gone be mah year! I've had the best start 2 this year than I've eva had. Spent tha 1st 4 dayz of tha year with tha love of mah life!! Our situation duz'n allow us 2 be 2getha like normal, but regardless, we're still very much in love! Yes we have our normal fights {distance duz'n change the arguments @ all lol}. But I love him & i kno this iz real. And it's crazy cuz most wuda sed "f it", threw in tha towel eons ago. But I guess wen u really love sum1, distance don't mean a thing. I don't feel far away 4rm him @ all. We jus realized tha otha day I been reppin tha chi evn b4 i knew anything about him or tha chi {lol}. But I kno that he's it & I'm so glad that I finally found a winner! Skip u losers that hurt me in tha past. Honestly, I gotta thank them 4 preparing mah heart 4 a relationship like this. He literally iz mah everything & I kno many people say it all the time how they can't picture life without a certain sum1, but I mean it with everything. He is mah otha half. Swear it!!!

On 2 mah frenz. I swear I love em & even tho Bee is leavin me {even tho she sed she was staying lol} I kinda feel like it's wats best 4 her. I kno that a new start in a new year will give her a new insight on love. She'll realize she won't have 2 make one-sided changez. I kno how u feel about JJ {look @ mah abbreviations lol}, but the change wud occur 2gether, not separately. I hope you don't give up on love, cuz it iz one of theee best feelings in tha world...wen it's real...wen it's right! In time, honey...in time.

So happy 4 wifey and Dee. I kno it ain't been easy 4 none of us tryna find tha real & sumtimes u think u want sumthin & realize that u already had wat u needed!

Umm...workin 2 jobs like a single parent wit 4 kids as Bee wud say. Lol...nah it's finally calmed down...I'm jus so glad that God has blessed me enough 2 have 2. And one iz a good job 2 {lol}!

This is y I'm sayin 2009 is mah year, fa sho!!! I'm happy & I'm in love...wat better combination?!

~*~Mrs. Amillie~*~

Ch-ch-ch-ch-changez!!!!

2008-12-01T11:35:00.002-05:00

Man...sometimes change can be so f'n hard. It can be really good, but it's soooooo hard! I don't want any of mah frenz 2 leave me! But, thas life & we're gonna go our separate ways eventually. It's jus...u don't think that far ahead wen ur frenz. Ur like, "oh she's always gonna be around." And then, one day it finally hits u that as we get older we're gonna do different things. And that really makes me sad. Life is crazy. And as u gain one thing--for instance...I've gained love {real love}--u lose another...a really good fren. And even tho u kno u'll always be frenz...it sucks cuz they won't be there wen u jus wanna go visit them @ work {or sumthin like that} wen u jus feel like it. It's really sad 2 think on. And sumtimes u jus wanna be in denial, but u gotta come 2 the realization that things ARE gonna change whether u want them 2 or not. So, I jus hop on board & give "big ups" 2 mah girls! I love them whether we talk everyday or once every 2 months. They're are the best. And I kno that once I MAKE IT BIG IN THE INDUSTRY they'll have no choice but 2 be around. LMBO! Cuz, wifey gone be assistant...duh! lol! And Bee, Dee, Si, Lama & Si...I don't kno...haven't thot that far in advance. LOL! But, jus kno that ya'll gone be wit me every step of the way! LOL! I love ya'll...KNO THIS!!!

BeEN gOnE 4 A mINutE...

2008-11-12T22:13:00.001-05:00

Where hav i been??? Nowhere...jus not on blogger. Besides...like a re re i 4got my e-mail cuz i hadn't been on here in so long and it kinda jus popped n2 my head. So.....here i iz!! Lol...

But wat i hav been dealin wit is whiny ex's--i'm so not goin there rite now...i'm not even tryna be cool wit that dude NO MORE!!! Get ova it...i dnt want u nemore...deal wit it. So, ur not my world nemore?? U had me, lost me, ur bad. But newayz...i'm ova that.

Next!!!

4 some reason me & my love jus cant catch a break on this relationship thing. We're like so in love but we keep gettin hit 4rm every angle. It's so not fair...we already hav the whole distance thing & on top of that we got all this bs!!! I mean, regardless i'ma be his cuz I AM his...but it's like "come on!!" i'll get ova it...i'm jus havin a moment...

But, in spite of all that I'm actually really happy!! I mean, I'm in love, gettin a promotion @ work {thinkin of gettin a holiday job tho...lol}, lovin my frenz, family is, well...family :-). I'm more than good.

So...thas the update...i'll be blogging more often again...i kinda missed it. PLUS...I gotta sidekick {4rm the ex...about the only good thing I got 4rm him...ha ha!}.

*kisses :-p*

Close That Chapter...

2008-10-14T14:42:00.003-04:00

Close that book!!! {who kno's wat thas from??? lol}

So, I've finally got the closure that I've been dying 2 get. I must give a special thanks to Eb 4 puttin' me on 2 that special song by Mrs. Carter {funny how everyone is calling her that now, like her marry'n him is wat makes her...lol}. Anywho...I listened 2 that song and realized how NOT over the way mah ex hurt me. I listened 2 it--literally--a thousand and one times {well, maybe not literally...but u get mah point}. And I cried. 4 like the 1st time since we ended...I confronted mah feelings. Wen we ended {4 good} I jus said "f" it and I wanted 2 move on; play the role...be the bad girl. But, things never go as planned. I ended up falling in love. And yes, he's done TONS of stupid things, but now that he's really trying, I'm letting mah unresolved issues wit mah ex hurt our chances of actually working out.

So, with that said, I finally talked 2 him. Heard his story, which I wish he woulda jus said from the start. It's so funny, tho. I've always jus talked about how dumb boys are and they jus don't care who they hurt...but I've learned 2day {and as wifey says} "there's always a story." I mean there's always a reason why they are as stupid as they are {lmbo}. It's jus truth. But, now that I kno, it jus makes it easier 4 me 2 accept. And now I can fully move on and not hold unfair, bitter feelings towards mah love!

I'm happy. I feel really good! Cuz I've finally...

Closed that chapter...Closed that book!!!

the classics...

2008-10-09T14:09:00.000-04:00

i've always loved movies but now i think im fallin in love wit the oldies. and no i dont mean the 80's or even the 70's...the real classics...they're so good. i love the way they talk lol...

"THE" Ex

2008-10-08T12:35:00.003-04:00

Quick Snippet:
*I love mah wifey: {i gotta be her rock now since I'm at a point that she's not...and I don't mind that at all cuz she's been mine more than I can count}
*I love mah Bee: {I can't imagine life without her...she's mah heart}
*I love all mah frenz: {God seriously gave me the best}

Anywho...on 2 "THE" Ex...

It's important 2 kno that there is always that one person in ur life that will be "THE" ex...aside from every other former bf/gf that u've had, there will always only be one that, in any convo that u have wit anyone, they kno exactly who ur talkin about wen u say my ex...lmbo!

Well as far as "THE" ex...he's movin back to the D...and yes, of course, he's tryna get back in. I mean, why?!? Seriously. I did everything 4 this boy, LITERALLY took care of him and he jus did me soooooo wrong {as is the story of a nigga...lol}. But, now he's text'n me and calling me allll the time. I mean...that use 2 be me {wen we weren't 2gether}...and now it's flipped 2 him. And it's so not normal 4 me. I mean, it's not like he outright said, "Cristal, I want u back." But, of course he wouldn't. I jus kno him...I kno him. And I kno he's tryna get back.

I made a mistake of tellin him of a problem that me and mah love were having--well, not a mistake...i jus thot we were frenz, ya kno--and he basically told me 2 break up wit him; that i should "Do me..." lol...goodness, these boyz! Wat is it wit them. Why can I be a fren 2 him, but he can't be the same 2 me. I've been there, where I was the ex tryna give him advice about his OTHER GIRLS and tryin not 2 be jealous at the same time...but I'm not there anymore and I wish he could understand that I love mah love...and I don't want him back...

I still love him, 4 sure. but I'm no longer in love with him...of course he'll try 2 act as if he doesn't want me back, but like I said, thas a nigga 4 u...we'll see how this plays out!

~MISS Petite~

BOY STOP?!?!

2008-10-01T10:58:00.003-04:00

I'm sorry but i jus have to post this convo between me and this boy on facebook. I don't get boys...wat is really wrong wit them. I swear they mental. I haven't talked 2 this boy in TWO YEARS and this is wat he come at me wit:

Dumb Nigga:

September 29 at 6:04pm

How have u been?

Cristal Nicole:

September 29 at 7:21pm

wow...i been good...u?

Dumb Nigga:

September 29 at 10:53pm

Im doing fine. Surprised bout sumthin?

Cristal Nicole:

September 29 at 11:38pm

lol...wateva...u kno wat im surprised about...wat made u write me??

Dumb Nigga:

September 30 at 1:55am

It was weird but i was thinkin bout u

Cristal Nicole:

September 30 at 7:43am

aww u was thinkin about me lol...why is that weird? lol so wat were u thinkin about

Dumb Nigga:

September 30 at 2:54pm

Jus wondering what u had been up to. Was wondering y we couldnt get along when i no i liked u. Also was wonderin how the celibate life was. All that!

Cristal Nicole

September 30 at 6:56pm

lol...all that huh...i mean i been good. livin life as best i can and...i couldn't tell u why we aint get along i guess we were jus too alike...and as far as the celibacy thing...well i have a boyfren so wateva u take from that

Dumb Nigga:

Today at 5:35am

Its time to cheat bcuz i wanna take u out

Cristal Nicole

Today at 7:56am

o wow {dumb nigga...lol}...i dont kno about that...im definitely not a cheater...and why do i have 2 cheat jus 4 u 2 take me out

I mean, seriously....wat be goin thru these dudes heads?!?! I need 2 kno now. 2 years and I dropped u..and now all of a sudden u want me 2 drop mah boo 4 u....lets use common sense now...really!!!!

Unofficial Girl...

2008-09-22T12:37:00.002-04:00

There was a lot of talk about this song wit mah girls this weekend {lmbo!!! we had 2 much fun}...but everybody clearly kno's Cassie's talkin about Diddy! Duh...I like the song tho. And I listened 2 the words...and I totally understand where the girl is comin from. I was there wit and ex of mine...but now I have a guy who wants 2 be wit me and I'm put'n him on hold. I mean I kno why, but then I realize that there are girls out there that all they want is the "title". And I can have that wen I want and I'm hold'n it off. I guess it's kinda confusing. I can tell him I wanna be 2gether again and that will be that...I jus wanna be sure I'm ready. Well..that he's ready, ya kno. No matter how much he says he wants 2 be with me...I need 2 kno he really wants it this time...i dunno...I'm jus conFWused!!!

Trust U????

2008-09-19T13:14:00.003-04:00

Why are boys so unbelievably stupid??? I mean seriously. I honestly don't believe that I'm putting all guys in a category because all boys ARE, in fact, stupid. Like they jus didn't get that piece in their brain that females get. What the "h" are u missing??? It's so retarded. Mah love went and did the most retarded thing any guy could do {well, not the most retarded...but I'm pissed}. And his explanation was that he wanted 2 kno that I can trust him if anything else came up further down the line. ARE U INSANE???? Seriously...

It's like, after all that he's done 2 me, I shouldn't trust him. But, I let all that bull go and I do trust him. If ur gonna be wit somebody then u can't keep holding on 2 that mess, so I'm not anymore. And, if anything, I should be the one testing him 2 see if I can trust him...but I didn't. And he has the f'n audacity 2 do something like that!!! It's like...don't u kno that I'm yours...all mah f'n myspace statuses tell the world {FReE OwNz}. Don't test me...I'm get'n enough of that from my old ex who's slowly but surely tryna work his way back in {another story...lol} I'll get over it...I kno I will. I'm jus pissed. I was hurt, but wifey says I shouldn't be.

Speak'n of wifey. It's so unbelievably unfair. Like I said, boys are stupid and then u expect us 2 trust u???? I mean, come on now...

I jus came up wit this theory 2day. me and wifey were talkin and I told her:

"It seems the more a guy becomes threatened of losing you, the more dumb he gets."

And it couldn't be more true. I jus wish guys knew that tell'n the truth gets u farther than anything! Realize that and stop be'n so stupid!!! Goodness!!!

~MISS Petite~

SATC!!!!!

2008-09-16T13:17:00.001-04:00

So Sex & The City comes out next week on video! But, u kno since I uh...work at Blockbuster--i gets it pre-street! So there will be an SATC Party this weekend. Be there or...well, wateva! LOL!

Ride or Die???

2008-09-09T12:36:00.007-04:00

This is a statement thas been thrown around a lot. But, most chicks don't even kno wat that means.

Ride-or-die chick:
wifey material...someone who has ur back thru the thick and the thin. She was there 4 u from jump {whether u flat broke or got bread 4 days}. The material things don't matter 2 her. She don't mind fittin the bill wen need be cuz she'll do anything 4 u. She doesn't EXPECT the same from u, because she KNO'S that u would be willing 2 do the same 4 her any day. All that she asks from u in return is that u love her and HER ONLY! Thas it...thas a ride-or-die chick!!!

I can say 4 a fact that--and believe that I'm not tryna toot mah own horn {well maybe a lil...lol}--I am definitely a ride-or-die chick. I've got that in me.

And I kno that u've been on this lil roller coaster ride wit me goin back and forth over the guy I love, but then...thas love. Ups and downs. And yes, he's done wrong in the past {but no one's an angel and no one is completely good ALL the time}. And believe that I am not making excuses 4 wat he's done...he'll get his soon {I love that "love revenge" lol...it's all good}, but I'm simply saying that regardless, we'll make it work.

Because wen love is real, and u want it 2 work, u'll make it work. U gotta find something in u 2 stick wit it. If u can't find it, then it's obviously not meant 2 be, so leave it be. But, wen u find that thing. Whether it be the smallest reason or a giant, make it work because at least u can say u gave it ur all. And, if in fact it doesn't work after u gave ur all...well...and I hate 2 be repetitive...u gave ur all!

And thas exactly wat I plan 2 do. Cuz I love him and he loves me 2. Some may read this {mainly frenz...Bee...lol} and think I'm crazy and I'll have 2 agree wit u! Yea...I am crazy. Cuz love is neva simple...neva normal. There are always some problems. Whether ur willing 2 go thru it or not is on u. And I can say that I've had mah share of tiffs with love in the past, but i'm jus not willng 2 let go of it yet. So, I'm holding on! Cuz, regardless of the tears, the hurt, the pain, the anger...u have 2 realize that with it comes happiness, smiles, laughter...LOVE! And u can neva have one without the other.

So, I'll take the good and the bad...cuz...well...

I'm a ride or die...no question needed!!!

Bad Girl Gone Good, Gone...

2008-09-02T18:43:00.002-04:00

Bad once again!!! No explanation needed! Jus kno it's time 4 these dudes 2 get a dose of their own medicine. Sometimes I hate the fact I put aside mah bad girl ways 4 love. All I got was hurt. But, no more...maybe I'm just a....

BAD GIRL!!!

FITS OF A SLEEPLESS NIGHT...

2008-08-30T03:56:00.000-04:00

i wonder how many sleepless nights i've had in my lifetime all because of love. not that im blaming love 4 who i fell 4, jus simply sayin. it seems i've been here more than i should hav. and i wish there was a way 2 avoid this. but, as i kno, and anyone else who's ever suffered from heart break, i kno i must go thru this.

a thousand thots race thru my head and i wonder is this my punishment 4 falling in love. i wonder, is this the benefit. i swear i hear a million times over that he's not worth my tears, it's his loss, it'll get better and so forth. and trust me that i kno all these things already but that doesn't mean my tears will stop fallin and it doesn't mean i'll accept it better because he didn't deserve me {I mean, who does, really??}, and it surely doesn't make the time pass any faster knowin that it will get better. and trust me wen i say im no where near pessimistic. i mean u would think that after all the heart ache i've experienced that i would throw my hands up, say f it and be bitter as eva. but im not...im very optimistic but more so realistic! life does a number on u. changes u. grows u up....changes u. i dunno. i guess this is jus...fits of a sleepless night!!!

I HATE HIM!!!!

2008-08-28T16:11:00.002-04:00

He jus ruined mah whole day...wish I couldn't care, but I do and I'm crying typing on mah laptop in the frikkin library. I HATE HIM!!!!

Mah Response 2 OneTen's post :-)

2008-08-28T14:36:00.003-04:00

One Ten's recent post piqued mah interest a whole lot. Not 4 any particular reason other than the fact that he was listing some Classic songs {he so wonderfully call's PD's...wanna kno wat it is...go look @ his page}. But, he missed some...and since, a few years back, I made mah own cd'z for this exact purpose...I was compelled 2 add 2 wat he already has! Hope he doesn't mind

::little girly face::

So, here goes.... {in no particular order of course}
*112- Sweet Love*:
I know that every female wanted 2 make LOVE to this song. I remember wen...o excuse me...was gettin a little nostalgic there!

*3 Piece-Ooh Aah*:
Now they may not be very well known...but play the song and I'm sure you'll see why I chose this as one of the songs

*PRETTY WILLIE- Lay Your Body Down*:
Notice I put his name in all caps because, I like, love this song. And it doesn't hurt one bit that he is super sexy!!!!! Some may not agree with me 4 this song...but mah lil cousin got this on her iPod, so I may be goin in the right direction {or now that I think about it...maybe not}

*Ashanti- Rescue Me*:
Some may not remember this song, but this girl wasn't playing. The song is ~~7 1/2 minutes~~ long...Do I really need 2 say why???

O goodness...I jus got super excited wen I realized I was about 2 write this song...

*Az Yet- Last Night*:
Everybody and they momma's remember this song! CLASSIC!!!!!

*Beyonce- Speechless*:
This song??? I've always wanted 2 to this song...hasn't happened yet, but I still got time...She was trying to do an Ashanti with this song being 6 minutes...Ashanti got her beat tho...

*Boyz II Men: 50 Candles/ I Do*:
A lot of ppl haven't even heard 50 candles...but it's so sensual. And some may say what the "h" am I thinking putting "I Do" as a song 2 make love 2??? Well, I know any girl would, without a 2nd thot, race u 2 the bed if u played this song 4 her. Shoot, if not...I would, but thas kinda beside the point. Maybe I jus really like this song...lol!

*Ginuwine- So Anxious*:
Okay...Do I really need 2 explain here???? I couldn't even if I tried...I jus keep goin back 2 that video...good LORD!!!

*Ideal- Creep Inn*

*Jamie Foxx- Do What It Do*:
Haven't heard it? Please do...

*Lloyd- Take It Low/ Feel So Right/ Cadillac Love*:
He got a few songs that are jus right 4 the occasion...appreciate him 4 that!

OKAY!!!! HERE WE GO!!!!!!!

*Maxwell- This Woman's Work*:
Love & Basketball...nothing more 2 say!!!!

*Silk- Let's Make Love*

*TLC- Red Light Special*:
yea...those mah girls...they kno how 2 make a man work 4 wat they want!!! remember the lyrics and you'll kno wat I mean...lol!

*Tyrese- Signs of Lovemaking*

*Usher- Do It To Me/ Can You Handle It?*:
This dude?!?! Love him 4 those songs

*Yung Joc ft. Marques Houston- First Time*:
I think I jus wanted 2 put this song on the cd, but I like it, so I'll keep with it

Thas all I have...I didn't put all on there cuz I didn't like every single one of them...those are mah favz so...let's see what u think. Wat i miss????

MISS PETITE

BACK 2 DA BOOTH!!!

2008-08-27T13:09:00.004-04:00

I guess you could say that Blogger is officially pissing me off right now so i guess I'll write a blog!

Anywho....

I'm goin back 2 the studio 2day {I guess 4 those of u who didn't kno...I sing and write}. I'm super excited. I haven't been in over a month due 2 crazy drama that happens in life. But, I definitely don't wanna be a singer, but if thas wat God has in the cards 4 me then who am I 2 stop him {lol}. I jus wanna write. Stay behind the scenes and let others bring mah words 2 life. But, I gotta start somewhere and since folks are so anxious 2 get me 2 do a cd, thas wat I'll do! Here's a song I wrote. I wrote it in like 30 minutes as soon as I heard the music It's copy written so, don't copy me! LOL!

Currently Untitled:
What you wanna do baby/ jus lemme kno/ we ain't gotta rush we can take it nice and slow/ wateva you wanna do/ cuz u kno I aim 2 please/ jus tell me how u like it/ got some tricks up mah sleeve/ jus let the music play/ put the cell on vibrate/ cuz it's me and you/ wateva you wanna do

bridge: you kno how I like it so baby take it slow/ Oh/ we got all night/ so baby/ you gotta take it slow

chorus: slow it down/ slow it down/ slow it down

~~Okay...so jus a snippet since you can't really hear the rhythm or melody anyway lol! {Thas mah pen name by the by: ~Melodee~} Pretti soon I'll let you hear some of it. Once it's recorded of course! As far as the title goes...I'm Thinkin maybe "Slow" or "Slow It Down"...something pretti obvious...lol! So peace and luv!

Do something creative 2day! LOL!

MISS PETITE

DarN FaShiON fAds

2008-08-26T21:55:00.000-04:00

i jus had a really random thot lookin @ a commercia 4 the army. does anybody remember the camouflage fashion fad??? oh goodness...it had 2 be the worst! i neva caught on 2 that and i was so glad wen it was over. i mean who seriously sat down and said i think that usin army fatigue will be the best fashion style that ever existed. well...i guess the same person who said hummers would be good suv's. and i still dont see why folks bought into that mess! any who...that was my random thot 4 the day. and i hope that mess neva comes bac.

Choices, choices, choices

2008-08-26T11:03:00.002-04:00

So...I guess that I've finally decided 2 let go of all this partying crap...the drinking, the clubs, the BOYZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!!!! Goodness, Lord knows how hard thas gonna be! I was in church the other day and I realized how hypocritical I've been. But, it didn't start there. It started Thursday wen I went out wit one of mah bestest (Bee). We were at Red Lobster (That food was sooooo good and the WAITER???? He was amazing...lol).

But, ne who...she was talking about all the ppl in her life who suddenly decided they wanted to become saved and lived right. She said they were all fake. And I'm not one 2 judge-tho I could see where she was coming from--but who's 2 say if they didn't really make the change in their hearts to be different. And I couldn't say all of this 2 her because I realized how many times I came 2 her saying that I was gonna be different and the very next day I was in the club getting drunk. I mean...yea...I like 2 have fun...but at wat cost???? Eternal Damnation (sorry 2 those who don't believe in it...but I do with mah whole heart!!!!)

I mean...thing is...I know how blessed I was wen I was living right. Now that I'm doing the whole "worldly" thing...everything is kinda crashing down around me!!!! I'm not feeling it and I kno wat I need 2 do. I gotta change. And I made the decision on Sunday...so I'm changing. Not trying...cuz:

"If someone really wants 2 change...there is not TRY--you jus change. If there is no change, then obviously that person doesn't want 2 change. Plain and simple."

Thas from me!!!! LOL

But on 2 a lighter note:
~~I saw Tropic Thunder on Thursday and House Bunny on Friday!! Those movies are frikkin hilarious. I'm glad ppl are finally coming out wit comedies that actually make u laugh. LOL! I loved them and if u go see them. I'm sure u will 2. Call me their PR Agents. I'm telling u 2 go see it. It's only 5 dollars Monday-Thursday (look now I'm promoting Star Theatres). I'm good at this...I should so do this for a living!!!!

CoMPliCaTEd lOvE...

2008-08-21T10:49:00.000-04:00

I'm in love with a guy who I prolly shouldn't be...we'll call him Illinois (guess now u kno mah "deeper infatuation with Chicago). Thing is...he's a liar and a cheater. That should be enough 2 leave him alone, right? Yea...I wish. I've only known him since the end of January and we jus got 2gether back in May. Needless 2 say, we're not 2gether anymore. But, I kinda feel as if we will be 2gether soon. I mean jus because someone cheats doesn't mean their not in love. I kno this (I use 2 be this looooong time ago). I guess thas why I keep giving chances. Because I kno wen it was me {with BP} that I wanted another chance. {BP neva gave me anotha chance and I kno how I felt...I wanted the chance 2 prove 2 him that I loved him regardless of mah cheating...but I wasn't allowed that.}

But, thas a lil beside the point. so...

Back 2 mah present...I love him and I kno that if he could take back wat he did 2 me...he would. I kno how terrible he feels. He has never been this honest and out in the open about how he feels about me {finally} and lettin ppl kno that his heart is taken. I mean...it's really sad that it takes me leav'n him 2 realize wat he had. I mean but I guess thas a nigga 4 u and they neva realize wat they have wen it's right in front of them.

I guess mah dilemma is that I wanna be back with him...but I don't wanna be back in this spot...feeling hurt and betrayed the millionth time around. I wanna believe he's changed like he said, but I need proof. More than jus lettin it be known on MySpace {but it doesn't hurt}. I jus need 2 kno it's only me and fa real this time. {if there is a next time}.

I love him...I jus don't trust him...and thas a big problem 4 me there. WTD????

~MISS PETITE~

I'm new 2 this...again!!!

2008-08-20T16:32:00.001-04:00

I guess I'm starting this blogging thing again. Gave it a rest 4 a while...but I'll get back with it. So let's get 2 kno me...shall we???

I currently live in Michigan which I hate with the utmost passion. But, it's cool because soon enough I'll be living in Chicago--on mah own--going to school there. Yessir (congratulate me...lol) I'll be going 2 columbia college. I love it...and I haven't even started yet. But, I guess mah infatuation with Chicago goes a lil deeper than jus the school. But, I guess u'll learn more about that as time goes on. I'm a complicated soul...lol. I'm jus bein honest. But I've grown and matured a whole lot. I kno u hear that a lot...I mean a WHOLE LOT! But, in all honesty...I have. And I'm proud of me!!!! I'm letting go of a lot instead of tryna hold on 2 things that aren't meant 2 be. I'm me...and trust me...u'll love me!!! If not...o well :) jok!!!

~MISS PETITE~